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GLBSituation update - A message to my friends and followers.
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Luxe MuseFri, Feb 27
bonjFri, Feb 27
bonjFri, Feb 27
bonjFri, Feb 27
bonjFri, Feb 27
bonjFri, Feb 27
This is just a little situation update regarding my models and when they will be ready for distribution.
A lot has happen'd this year for myself changing the dynamics of life in many ways. My son has been offered a place at college in September.
Initially offered the Media course he wants as a stepping stone to film / animation but possibly opening up to cover some more basic skills he
could use the help with. I currently teach him Film / media / game development and model making as well as the basics.
If you don't already know my son has been home schooled since he was six years old. As a lone parent since he was only 9 months old it has not
been an easy journey for us. School was useless and couldn't even provide him with lunch due to the detentions he missed many meals. I lost my
temper with them and decided to do it all myself.
That decision cost me my job, left me homeless and broke also at times having to relay on benefits to survive. Traveling to work away from home on
productions became impossible as my responsibility as a parent was more important. Honestly I could write a book on our journey, it's been the most
challenging thing I could ever imagine and it almost broke me. That said, I would still do it all again if I had to.
He's now turned 17. He needs a little more help before returning to more formal education. It is a great opportunity for him but I need to help get
him up to speed ready for September.
That's where my time is going right now and model making has become a weekend only exercise at least for the next couple of months. My products
are almost ready but life stuff has delayed everything I'm afraid.
The great news apart from My son being given this opportunity is that in September my day's will become mine again as I won't be spending my time
teaching everyday. I can push forward with my projects and models at a much faster and more focused pace. Hopefully enjoy it again instead of
trying to play catch up. My business went bust in 2020 like so many other new ventures. I can't wait to be able to get stuck-in again.
That's it, a positive result. This is the biggest change in our world for a long time and we are both looking forward to opportunities it gives us.
A lot has happen'd this year for myself changing the dynamics of life in many ways. My son has been offered a place at college in September.
Initially offered the Media course he wants as a stepping stone to film / animation but possibly opening up to cover some more basic skills he
could use the help with. I currently teach him Film / media / game development and model making as well as the basics.
If you don't already know my son has been home schooled since he was six years old. As a lone parent since he was only 9 months old it has not
been an easy journey for us. School was useless and couldn't even provide him with lunch due to the detentions he missed many meals. I lost my
temper with them and decided to do it all myself.
That decision cost me my job, left me homeless and broke also at times having to relay on benefits to survive. Traveling to work away from home on
productions became impossible as my responsibility as a parent was more important. Honestly I could write a book on our journey, it's been the most
challenging thing I could ever imagine and it almost broke me. That said, I would still do it all again if I had to.
He's now turned 17. He needs a little more help before returning to more formal education. It is a great opportunity for him but I need to help get
him up to speed ready for September.
That's where my time is going right now and model making has become a weekend only exercise at least for the next couple of months. My products
are almost ready but life stuff has delayed everything I'm afraid.
The great news apart from My son being given this opportunity is that in September my day's will become mine again as I won't be spending my time
teaching everyday. I can push forward with my projects and models at a much faster and more focused pace. Hopefully enjoy it again instead of
trying to play catch up. My business went bust in 2020 like so many other new ventures. I can't wait to be able to get stuck-in again.
That's it, a positive result. This is the biggest change in our world for a long time and we are both looking forward to opportunities it gives us.
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reading this is truly inspiring and I can't imagine the hell y'all went through. I sincerely wish the best for you and your son, you both absolutely deserve it.
I salute you !!
I salute you !!
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bonj
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Fri, Feb 27Thanks very much thirdeye,
For all the hard times there was many great moments. The first 5 years I took him to work with me. He had the best Nannie's onsite with us and he got to play with real forklifts, telehandlers and crane's. Not to mention the freedom of living in a festival environment and playing with his friends. Camping for the whole of August with the best Crew , facilities and of course the music
It cost me a small fortune but at least I was still working then.
Luckily one of my regular festivals supported us so much during the hardest days.
For all the hard times there was many great moments. The first 5 years I took him to work with me. He had the best Nannie's onsite with us and he got to play with real forklifts, telehandlers and crane's. Not to mention the freedom of living in a festival environment and playing with his friends. Camping for the whole of August with the best Crew , facilities and of course the music
It cost me a small fortune but at least I was still working then.
Luckily one of my regular festivals supported us so much during the hardest days.
Definitely not an easy choice or journey for you and your son. But it sounds like you made the right choice for both of you. I wish you and your son all the best!
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bonj
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Fri, Feb 27Thanks Mel.
I think I would have lost him if I hadn't made that choice, Or lost my mind loosing him to the system. In the early day's there was a risk of kidnap from the other side grandparents. He would have been taken to the USA and likely never seen again. My options were limited back then. It all worked out well
I think I would have lost him if I hadn't made that choice, Or lost my mind loosing him to the system. In the early day's there was a risk of kidnap from the other side grandparents. He would have been taken to the USA and likely never seen again. My options were limited back then. It all worked out well
Even a sweet burden is still a burden. I have the utmost respect for your decision. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that September will come as soon as possible for you.
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bonj
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Fri, Feb 27Indeed and every burden takes it's toll. Probably why I'm burnt out and struggle to focus X)
September is going to be a fresh start for us both, after a short refreshing break. Thanks Pushee
September is going to be a fresh start for us both, after a short refreshing break. Thanks Pushee
I hope the future holds many happy moments for you and repays you for the efforts and difficulties you have faced. Hugs.
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bonj
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Fri, Feb 27Thanks Joker. We made some good memories last week go karting for his birthday. I am re-payed already with all the great moments we had and still make. He's my best friend now.
Looking forward to the bonus moments still to come
Looking forward to the bonus moments still to come
"If you don't already know my son has been home schooled since he was six years old."
Congratulations, Bonj, you are truly his hero! It is what my better half and I wanted to do with our boy as well, but unfortunately, as he is special needs, it needed much more than what we could provide.
I'm very happy things are turning out right for you. Reading positive news lately feels like fairy tales, so thank you for sharing, and keep up the good work. Again, you are a hero!
Congratulations, Bonj, you are truly his hero! It is what my better half and I wanted to do with our boy as well, but unfortunately, as he is special needs, it needed much more than what we could provide.
I'm very happy things are turning out right for you. Reading positive news lately feels like fairy tales, so thank you for sharing, and keep up the good work. Again, you are a hero!
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bonj
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Fri, Feb 27Thanks so much I didnt mention above that he is autistic, very high functioning with some things but socially he struggles. That's why the school bullied him instead of teaching.
He used to read two or 3 books in a day (Percy Jackson novels or similar). I would buy cheap secondhand book bundles from ebay but by the next week he had read them all. He struggles with a stammer some day's can't ride a bike as he hates the sensation. Yet I got him to try driving a go kart recently and he has overcome his ballence fears. He now like racing
We finally got a diagnosis in 2020 but he was considered too old for school support. Then they hit me with a court order to put him into school with no help in place for him. A threat of prison or a large fine if i failed to comply and they would have taken him into state care.
I wasn't backing down without a fight, and I won the right to continue home schooling. It would have been overwhelming for him and could have been damaging.
His obsessions are now for his own stories and they are incredibly complex and ambitious. His autism is a curse and also a gift. It takes a lot of extra effort to teach some subjects. That's what makes the offer from college so exciting, he will finally get some professional help. I can only do so much.
Time for me to sit back and let him find his own feet, I will catch him if he need it
I didnt mention above that he is autistic, very high functioning with some things but socially he struggles. That's why the school bullied him instead of teaching.He used to read two or 3 books in a day (Percy Jackson novels or similar). I would buy cheap secondhand book bundles from ebay but by the next week he had read them all. He struggles with a stammer some day's can't ride a bike as he hates the sensation. Yet I got him to try driving a go kart recently and he has overcome his ballence fears. He now like racing
We finally got a diagnosis in 2020 but he was considered too old for school support. Then they hit me with a court order to put him into school with no help in place for him. A threat of prison or a large fine if i failed to comply and they would have taken him into state care.
I wasn't backing down without a fight, and I won the right to continue home schooling. It would have been overwhelming for him and could have been damaging.
His obsessions are now for his own stories and they are incredibly complex and ambitious. His autism is a curse and also a gift. It takes a lot of extra effort to teach some subjects. That's what makes the offer from college so exciting, he will finally get some professional help. I can only do so much.
Time for me to sit back and let him find his own feet, I will catch him if he need it
Luxe Muse
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Fri, Feb 27Wow, I can feel my skin crawling at the thought of mine being taken away. I can only imagine how you felt with those threats. Now that I think about it, compared to my own path, you were doubly right in your decision to homeschool him.
I placed mine in public school under a program for special needs during his first year, but it was just a daycare, with zero schooling as far as I could tell. So, we ended up buckling down and found a private school for special needs. It has not been easy to keep up with the payments, but we have managed, and we do not regret it either.
We got his diagnosis when he was around three years old. I remember being devastated, but looking back, I think I was just silly. It was a total waste of my energy. They are truly a gift, and the purest souls, not just because he is my son. I interact with many at his school, and they all are simply pure! Mine has an obsession with busy books, especially if they are being sold for three times their original price on eBay, hi, hi, hi
I placed mine in public school under a program for special needs during his first year, but it was just a daycare, with zero schooling as far as I could tell. So, we ended up buckling down and found a private school for special needs. It has not been easy to keep up with the payments, but we have managed, and we do not regret it either.
We got his diagnosis when he was around three years old. I remember being devastated, but looking back, I think I was just silly. It was a total waste of my energy. They are truly a gift, and the purest souls, not just because he is my son. I interact with many at his school, and they all are simply pure! Mine has an obsession with busy books, especially if they are being sold for three times their original price on eBay, hi, hi, hi
Reading your story really touched me.
The brightest part of everything you've been through is that your son has a father like you. That's truly priceless. I'm a father to a two-year-old myself, and I hope I can be the kind of support and example for my child that you've been for yours.
Much respect to you, you're truly an amazing father. Wishing you both continued success and happiness in this new chapter and beyond.
The brightest part of everything you've been through is that your son has a father like you. That's truly priceless. I'm a father to a two-year-old myself, and I hope I can be the kind of support and example for my child that you've been for yours.
Much respect to you, you're truly an amazing father. Wishing you both continued success and happiness in this new chapter and beyond.
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bonj
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Fri, Feb 27Hi Elite, Sincerely Thank you. We do what we can and I'm sure you will do a fantastic job going by what you have written.
Time fly's by and before you know it there are all grown up. Cherish every moment, even the tough ones.
Wishing you the best of luck also.
Time fly's by and before you know it there are all grown up. Cherish every moment, even the tough ones.
Wishing you the best of luck also.