Sorry to have upset you. My bad.

Gosh, I just noticed your pic. You're a good looking guy. Don't take it personally if you're also a 'player'.

Breaking hearts and/or collecting 'baby mommas' is scary behavior to most sentient people. I added the sword to sort of emphasize this - phallic symbol as well as a murderous weapon. One doesn't need to be hit over the head with the image of an ogre in shadows to be scared of what is before you.